5 powerful Abraham Hicks meditations for anxiety, abundance,sleep and general well being

When it comes to understanding the Universal laws and their relationship to our minds, the teachings of Abraham Hicks is definitely one of my big time favourites…Their guided meditations in Esther Hick’s voice do a great deal of benefit for the newbies as well as the intermediates.

I recommend reading their book.Ask and it is Given: Learning to Manifest Your Desires so that you can connect more to the guided meditations

Here are my go to 5 powerful guided meditations from Abraham Hicks that help deal with anxiety, stress, sleeplessness, promote general and physical well being and address issues of financial blocks.

1.)Morning Meditation

All…I repeat all successful people have a morning routine that contributes hugely to their overall success…Much has been documented about morning routines of successful people and more than handful of them vouch to not live without their daily morning meditation. A guided meditation every morning first thing is like waking up to the world of possibilities , renewed hope and in the faith that today is a new day, a new beginning

This is a beautiful motivating and uplifting guided meditation in Esther Hicks voice…sure to raise your vibrations and energy levels and set your mindset for the upcoming beautiful , bright day

2.)General well being Meditation

Feeling low, disconnected, disillusioned or plain tired mentally? Anxiety, stress and fear overpowering you? Calm down , take a few deep breaths and dive into this meditation.This is an excellent meditation from Abraham Hicks that connects you back to the source and makes you feel great an an extension of the source.

Listen to this Meditation in Esther’s voice in  the morning, anytime of the day whenyou feel heavy or in between two major activities.

3.) Physical Well being Meditation

With the changing and challenging lifestyles, evidently health is what suffers the most. Stress and anxiety further do the damage..More so even in case of mental disorders and imbalances, body image turns out to be number one contributor.

What could be the mindset responsible for a state of dis-ease in the body? Could changing how we feel about our body make a positive difference? It indeed does…

This meditation inscribes on us that our body is merely a physical manifestation of the extension of source and so as within as without.

4.)Financial well being Meditation

All of us have different beliefs about money that makes it the number one conflict of our lives. We all want money but have several limiting beliefs about us not deserving it, that wanting money is selfish or money makes us a bad person or for spiritual growth one should not want money and so on…

This meditation will put you in the right place, mentally and emotionally to release resistance and  receive abundance

5.)Before bedtime Meditation

The time just before sleep is crucial for our overall well being. The conscious mind is less aggressive and the subconscious mind is more open. It is not ideal to think and mull over all the unwanted thoughts of the day or getting anxious about what to do tomorrow.

This is the ideal time to relax, surrender and appreciate the rest you are just going to give your body.

This meditation will soothe you with its relaxing music and put you on the ideal trail of thoughts that you should have before going to sleep

 

I am regular with these meditations and feel great and light after tuning in to them…Hope they value add to your life as well

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How to set Clear Intentions for Manifestation : 5 Powerful Steps …

Intention, Desire Statement, Goal…whatever you call it…Setting Intention is the foundation to the Manifestation process…It’s the blueprint of your desire…To manifest abundance, peace and prosperity in your life…it’s crucial to get comfortable with setting intentions in the premise of the manifestation…

Every Manifestor has a unique way of setting Intentions…You need to practice and tweak what works for you…Listed below are the five most powerful steps of setting Intentions that I gathered from reading loads of Law of attraction  books, fellow Manifestors and tried and tested them myself…

1.) Be Authentic

Meditate on your Desire..Notice how it feels when you visualise the manifestation…Meditating on the desire will help you with clarity around your desire. Meditation will help you be authentic about what you actually want so that you can frame the correct intention and set it. You might confuse the “how” of the desire for “what” you want

.For an example – You wish to be debt free/ travel the world/ buy something expensive….You might think your desire is having/making more money for the same..and hence your intention simply would be – I intend to/make more money…the fact is money is just a way towards the manifestation of these desires not the desire itself…Being authentic , your intention would be I am excited/thrilled/ happy to be debt free/ travel the world/ buy something expensive

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2.) Be Specific

Clarity is extremely important…You’ll manifest mixed outcomes if you are not clear about your Intention…Clear Intentions is half the manifestion process done…Imagine yourself ordering a pizza…You just don’t say”pizza” and the pizza of your choice gets delivered…but you specifically tell about the size, base, toppings and customize it to your heart’s content…You get to enjoy the pizza of your choice only when you are clear about what you want and you are specific while placing the order…Similarly while setting an Intention it is extremely essential that you be as clear and specific as possible…

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3.)Write it down

Writing your intentions enables you to be clearer about your desire…Also writing it down singles it out from the rest of the mental chatter that accompanies desires…Make sure you write it like an affirmation and in the present tense….

“I AM” are extremely powerful words as they address directly to your being…if you begin your Intention with I AM, it engages your conscious and subconscious minds together in the process of manifestation…It also anchors the Intention in the Present and to the frequency of fulfillment…

An Intention format that works very well for me is

I AM SUCCESSFULLY MANIFESTING(Your desire as specific as possible), OR SOMETHING BETTER IN DIVINE TIMING FOR THE HIGHEST GOOD OF ALL Click To Tweet

You can dedicate a beautiful diary to your Intentions .In their book Ask and it is Given ,Abraham Hicks write about a beautiful process for this step called the Creation box…In this process you can make a creation box and fill it with pictures, collectible representing your desires…Get as creative as you can…Enjoying the process of setting the Intention is as important as manifesting the desired outcome…

4.)Affirm… Affirm…Affirm

Affirmation is a short sentence representing your intention in the smallest possible way and as specific as it could get…The smaller the affirmation, the effective it is and easier to repeat as well.An ideal Affirmation should take closest to the emotional outcome of your intention.

For an example – Intention – I successfully manifest a car of my dreams or something better in the divine timing for the highest good of all…Affirmation – I am thrilled/delighted/excited to manifest the car of my dreams

The ideal most affirmation - short, simple, closest to the emotion of the desire and repetition friendly Click To Tweet

 

5.)Let go

The act of Letting Go is the finial…I cant stress enough on this step…Generally after setting an intention we keep thinking about it and then doubt creeps in, impatience takes over and a resistance is created between you and your desired outcome…Therefore it is essential to let go, surrender and trust the process…Let’s take the example of the pizza in step 1…after ordering it do you obsess over when will it arrive? will it arrive or not? will it be as per my order?…No… you just know that once you have given your order, your job is done…you forget about it and it comes to you…Similarly your desired outcome will come to to you in its own time only when you detach from it…The more emotionally detached you are from the outcome…the sooner the outcome becomes your reality…

The most essential part of manifesting an idea from a thought to reality is the innate knowing that your desired outcome IS going to manifest and there is no other way round….Your job is to make sure your thoughts and feelings amplify this knowing and not act contrary to it…

Take a deep breath…Know that by setting your intention specifically and precisely you have activated the process of manifestation and trust with abundance that your desired outcome will come to you in the right time….

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How can Your Mind Manifest Your Reality- II (Setting Clear Intentions)

In How can Your Mind Manifest Your Reality -I (The New Belief System) we explored the Belief system needed by the Mind to Consciously Create your Reality…

In part II of this series, we’ll explore in detail the Art of Setting Clear Intentions.Intentions are nothing but our desires, wishes, goals whatever you call it…They are the blueprint of your future life…Why do I call it Art? Because it is one…it involves a delicate balance between being specific and open ended at the same time…

Types of Intentions

Broadly classified…there are 3 types of Intentions –

1.)The Bigger Picture- The Overall blueprint of your broad desire for Life…

For example:

I am living the Life of my dreams as I consistently create Peace, Happiness, Love and Abundance in every aspect of my Life or something better…with ease, elegance and joy for the highest good of all and harm to none

or

I am a powerful Manifestor of whatever I desire and I consistently Create a Happy,Peaceful,Abundant Reality for myself or something better for the highest good of all and harm to none

2.)The Primary Intentions – Intentions for specific areas of your Life like       Health, Work,Relationships, Money,Spirituality etc.

For example:

Health

I am in perfect physical,mental and emotional health;full of energy and vigor or something better ..for the highest good of all and harm to none

or

I Create a perfectly healthy Mind and Body for myself or something better…for the highest good of all and harm to none

Work

I Create/Attract work, with ease, elegance and joy;that I enjoy or something better….It motivates and excites me and pays me well;alongside positive, fun, genuine co-workers.It makes me feel fulfilled and empowers me financially for the highest good of all and harm to none.

or

I Create/Attract job opportunities with ease, elegance and joy;that pay me my worth; are suitably located and offer me flexibility and freedom or something better… for the highest good of all and harm to none.

Relationships

I am surrounded by genuine,trustworthy,positive friends who make Life much more fun… or something better…for the highest good of all and harm to none

or

I Create a loving long term relationship with the Man of my dreams with ease, elegance and joy.It makes me feel loved, respected, safe and free or something better……for the highest good of all and harm to none

or

I am consistently loved, protected, respected and appreciated or something better… by my Parents/Siblings/Partner/Friends/Children…for the highest good of all and harm to none…

Money

I am in a mutual love based relationship with Money where Money loves me and I grow it with ease, elegance, honesty and joy or something better…for the highest good of all and harm to none…

or

I create opportunities where Money flows to me abundantly or something better…with ease,elegance, honesty and joy for the highest good of all and harm to none…

Spirituality

I am consistently connected to the Source and divinely guided towards my spiritual upliftment or something better…with ease, elegance and peace for the highest good of all and harm to none…

or

I consistently experience spiritual growth.It makes me feel divinely safe and enlightened or something better…for the highest good of all and harm to none…

The aspects could be more.

3.)The Priority Intentions – The ones those are your priorities in day – to – day life…

These could be related to your routine Intentions as simple as getting a parking spot, clearing the traffic, money for emergencies, reaching on time, safeguarding from people who bring your energy down… etc.

These above are just examples to give a clear understanding of the how a complete intention looks like…You can use them or write your own…

Choice of words

Its imperative that you choose the words that resonate with you.It’s desirable that the Intention be in present tense and reflect the emotional outcome of the desired reality. But what is mandatory here is it has to be believable for you. It has to be believable yet far from your current reality. You will encounter constricted energy like stiffening in the chest, discomfort in the stomach if the Intention is too far fetched to be believed. Whereas,if you have written your intention correctly…you should be feel excitement, nervousness and the drive to go for it…

We all have a tendency to think short term which is again something that needs to be changed in the manifestation process…Make sure the Intention you have written isn’t reflecting your short term benefit which might be temporary…

For example : I Create a raise in my salary…or I get promoted in my company are ignorant Intentions…Why? Because they are short term, not focusing solely on the emotional outcome of the desire that is increased financial freedom and …closed ended…In a way it is like telling the Universe…. even if I what I want is increased financial freedom and even if I deserve much more than a mere raise or promotion, I’ll stick to them because they are the only means of financial freedom known to me as of now. Focus on the “what” not on the “how”

I Create/Attract job opportunities with ease, elegance and joy;that pay me my worth; are suitably located and offer me flexibility and freedom or something better… for the highest good of all and harm to none…This way of writing an intention focuses on exactly what you want, is open ended and doesn’t rule out the possibility of the raise or the promotion.

Closing of the Intentions

You must have observed the “for the highest good of all and harm to none” after every intention above.This is important…Many a times when you write an Intention there is a subconscious belief that your desire would be fulfilled at the expense of someone else or your own self-sabotaging beliefs stand in your way. At times you aren’t 100% sure, your intention would serve you in the long run or not. All such things act as unnecessary roadblocks in your manifestation process. Closing your intention with  “for the highest good of all and harm to none” ensures that your intention is not harming anyone else involved including you…. “Or something better” ensures that you surrender to the Universe or your faith to bring to you that which might slightly differ from the intention but necessarily confirms your highest good.

 

Allowing Statement

This is a declaration that you are ready and you allow the shift in your reality, surrender to your higher forces and let go of your Intention believing it will manifest in its own sweet way within or beyond your scope of thought…

For example:

I surrender to the Universe/my faith and believe that my intention or something better would manifest in the right time. Thank You

 

Ways to put your Intentions to work

Energy flows where Attention goes…Adequate Attention to the correctly written intention will make sure that nothing will stand in the way of your Intention getting fulfilled…

To know more about Ways of Setting Intentions see

3 Powerful Steps to Setting Intentions… 

 

Key Takeaways

  • Spend time with your Intentions. Feel the emotional outcome of your desire as you read through the Intention.
  • Journal your Intentions right from the broad one to the priority ones
  • Make sure they are positively in the present tense and importantly believable.
  • Make sure you write the closing and allowing statement
  • Read them every morning after you wake up and at night before you sleep
  • Make a note of all the resistance that happens when you read them. Write down in a separate section of the journal all that you think will not let your Intention manifest. These are either limiting beliefs or your inner nagging self that in order to protect you from a perceived harm will not let you try anything new…To know more about this see

5 Secrets of Your Conscious Mind You didn’t know

In the Part III of this series, we’ll explore Identifying all types of resistance that can stop your Intentions from being manifested into Reality.

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5 Secrets of Your Conscious Mind, You didn’t know

Mind: You know how much I take care of you

Me: Really? How?

Mind: Whenever someone offends you…I keep playing it to you again and again and again till you drop dead…so that you make an entire villian out of the one who offended you (maybe just once) and steer clear from him

Mind: Whenever you go on a diet, I tell you “It’s okay, just a blueberry cheese cake will not hurt”

Mind: Whenever your alarm clock buzzes early in the morning to wake you up for exercising, I tell you , It’s okay, doze off…yesterday was a tiring day…

This used be my regular conversation with my mind till one day I consciously decided not to be game to the lies that my mind told me…In consistently defying its orders and digging deeper, I uncovered the patterns of our mind to which we unconsciously fall prey to…Mind can be our biggest ally or our biggest enemy if left on its own…Here are some facts about the Mind you need to know to make the best possible from your own Mind.

1.) Your Mind thinks You are your Mind

Your Mind thinks your identity, image,what you do, what happens to you is all your Mind…Your Mind is a part of you..You are not your Mind….Your Mind can  tell you umpteen stories which will make sense to you only if you consciously choose to buy them…Your Mind thinks it is super intelligent and responsible for running your Life…But your Life doesn’t run only on logic…it has emotions and feelings which are beyond the Mind’s purview….Look at Google for example….It gives you results based on your keywords… If google starts giving you advice,would you follow it singlehandedly?

The next time your Mind tells you somethings…affirm:

I am not my Mind...I filter all information my Mind gives me and then come to a conclusion Click To Tweet

 

2.) Your Mind thinks loss of Control means death

Your Mind…all the time wants to control everything…which it obviously cannot but it believes it can…It’s afraid of uncertainty…For your Mind…uncertainty is Death…hence it will scare you to death if you decide to step out of the predictable comfort zone that is within the control of your Mind…Your Mind thinks Change is dangerous because the outcome is unknown…Mind loves to work in repetitive patterns because the outcomes become easily predictable then…

Your Mind believes any new things you try beyond its control will harm you….therefore it gives a strong resistance to any new things you plan to work on , assuming it is protecting you from the harm an uncertain outcome will cause…

Your Mind believes- Safety is more important than Progress Click To Tweet

It doesn’t care if what it prompts you to do is for your good or bad…All that is important is control over the outcome…

The next time when a voice in your head snaps… don’t do that…recheck if it’s your intuition or your Mind playing games over loss of control…

 

3.) Your Mind thinks Anger is the best defense

Do you realise …most of the times when you get angry it’s mostly because you do not wish to confront some reality about your own self…Your mind is your protector…it’s primary function is to protect you ..this is a survival mechanism and a part of human evolution…It tries its best to distract you from confronting anything that will cause you pain… and it thinks anger is the best distraction….yes it is….it quickly cuts you off from the root cause and shifts your focus on something more external…

The next time when you get angry,ask yourself…Am I genuinely angry or am I trying to escape from some inner confrontation…

 

4.)  Your Mind thinks your Happiness depends on external conditions

Your Mind is your protector…It wants to protect you at any cost …even if that means keeping you stuck in your comfort zone…controlling every thing…and so on…similarly it doesn’t let you experience happiness unconditionally….Why? Because Happiness is always accompanied by an irrational fear of “this wont last”…

Happiness itself doesn't make you feel safe...the anticipation of Happiness does... Click To Tweet

Thus your Mind keeps creating conditions to base your Happiness on…Whereas Happiness is your natural state…its intrinsic…But Happiness and Safety do not coexist subconsciously…You have to consciously work to make them coexist…

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5.) Your Mind thinks Everything matters

Your Mind has a strong need to control everything to keep you safe…In this attempt it just doesn’t let go of anything…it overthinks and ruminates just about everything…But in the long run ….Nothing Matters…yes…Nothing Matters…The thing that robs you of your peace today might simply not matter at all tomorrow…That offense that you took in someone’s behavior…does it really matter or your Mind is making it matter for you? A lost job, extra weight, a broken heart…will they matter in the long run…And if they matter only till you consciously change the situation, are they worth investing so much of time, emotion and energy on?

Next time you find yourself obsess over something you can die for or kill for…Ask yourself…Is this just a matter of time?..Would it really matter after this time has passed…or in the long run?

Congratulate yourself on your new discovery…after all its just your good old Mind trying to protect you…Pat your back for you have been doing excellent to the best of your capabilities…Smile and tell yourself…Nothing Matters…exhale deeply and rejoice in the moment as these words sink in…

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How can your Mind manifest your Reality? – I (The new belief system)

What is reality?

Most of you would say ..that which is perceived through five senses…most people rely exclusively on their sight, hearing, touch, taste and smell to interpret their reality as these five senses allow us humans to interact with and experience the physical world.

But can you solely rely on your five senses to give you an absolute sense of reality?

What are your senses telling you about right now? That you are sitting still, motionless and reading this…whereas the fact is you and everything on the Earth are rotating at the speed of  110,000 kilometers per hour (110 million meters per hour) around the sun…isn’t it?

In Hitchhiker’s Guide to the Galaxy series, Douglas Adam says,”The fact that we live at the bottom of a deep gravity well, on the surface of a gas covered planet going around a nuclear fireball 90 million miles away and think this to be normal is obviously some indication of how skewed our perspective tends to be.”…

Sounds weird…but its true…Similarly the age old example of a half filled glass which explains the coexistence of the reality of it being half filled and half empty also speaks of multitude of reality…Thus Reality is nothing but perception…perception which could easily extend beyond that prompted by the five senses…

All this should convince your rational and skeptic mind of the possibility of a world beyond the perception of your five senses to exist..With your rational mind on your side you would now be more open to the idea that in this wonder world beyond your senses…

Through your thoughts...Life happens by you...Life doesn't happen to you... Click To Tweet

Another question…Look at your belongings…Weren’t they real in your thoughts before they manifested in your reality?Wasn’t that smartphone real in your thoughts with colour and specifications before you actually bought it?

Everything around you...in your experience is somehow a resultant of your thoughts... Click To Tweet

The question that pops up in your mind now is…If thoughts really created reality wouldn’t we all just sit..think think think and boom!!! came our desired reality…Yes thoughts create reality but it isn’t as simple as it sounds and needs a paradigm shift in the belief system…Manifestation with your mind is a skill and like all other skill it needs a thorough understanding,proper mindset and practice to be acquired…The basic requirement to learn to manifest is to

Open your mind to the possibility of reality being beyond your five senses and that your dominant thoughts create your reality

Now that you have successfully opened your mind to the possibility of your thoughts creating your own reality…Let’s look at the new belief system needed to be instilled to learn manifesting

1.)Your Mind is a Universe itself

This means…everything in the physical realm has its origin in the  Mind first..There is a single, intelligent Consciousness, all powerful, all knowing, all creative and omnipresent – the Universal Mind. Our Mind is an extension of this Universal Mind in our physical experiences on the earth…

Didn’t buy it? Look at it this way….Our physical bodies are made up of DNA from our parents…That’s what biology says…Similarly our Mind draws from the single source the Universe and is very much a part of it  …says Quantum Physics…

Your Mind isn't just a home to your mental chatter.It's a potent powerhouse of thoughts creating your reality Click To Tweet

Belief 1 – Your Mind is a dangerously powerful tool to manifest your reality with your thoughts.

2.)Universe speaks Energy

Everything is Energy…Humans, animals, plants, stars, galaxies..everything visible and invisible is energy…Whatever you see in your physical world is simply energy vibrating at varying frequencies that your five senses interpret as something solid or tangible…Similarly your thoughts are also energy…Positive thoughts vibrate at a higher frequency and negative ones at lower frequency…A positive thought creates positive experiences and negative thought creates negative experiences in your reality…

Your thoughts aren't just the blabber in your mind...they are the source from which your reality is created Click To Tweet

Belief 2 – Your thoughts,  positive or negative..are pure energy and the concentrated form of this energy i.e. your dominant thoughts create your reality based on the frequency they are vibrating…

3.) Emotions as pointers

An average human Mind thinks about 60,000- 80,000 thoughts per day…It is not possible to consciously filter each and every negative thought….Does that mean you’ll manifest mixed outcomes(from positive and negative thoughts) without having control over it? No…This is where emotions come into play…A thought focused on for a long time triggers an emotion…An emotion is pronounced enough to make you aware of it…Thus an emotion is sustained energy of a thought…A strong positive emotion indicates the dominant thought being positive and vice versa…Experts say

Staying in a particular emotional state for more than 17 seconds triggers manifestation of the dominant thought that led to the emotion Click To Tweet

Belief 3:  An emotion is not only a state of mind but also a powerful indicator of what are your dominant thoughts and what kind of Reality are you creating…

Key takeaways:

1.) Mind is the powerhouse of thoughts

2.) Thoughts good or bad if focused repeatedly on become dominant thoughts and…create corresponding reality

3.)An average human mind thinks 60,000-80,000 thoughts per day…

4.) A dominant thought when focused on… triggers an emotion

5.) An emotion guides you if your dominant thought is positive or negative thereby indicating what kind of experiences will you manifest in your reality

This is the natural state of manifestation…This is obstructed by resistance, limiting beliefs, mental blocks, stuck energy etc.which exclusively will be discussed in the upcoming post

Stay tuned for How can your Mind manifest your Reality? – II, where we’ll discuss about the Mind as fertile grounds for manifestation – the Conscious and the Subconscious Mind…

 

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6 Revelations that blew my mind

A few years back…my life hit the rock bottom…My fairytalish rose-tinted view of Life shattered and I slipped into the Victim Mode which screams Why Me?….I got no answers…Determined to find the answers…I kept  reading whatever I thought would lead me to an answer….Neck deep into books, I came across a beautiful excerpt that made me feel…Yes!! This makes some sense…The excerpt said ..

Testing times do not end till you learn the lesson you are supposed to learn from them.... Click To Tweet

It was then that my question shifted from Why me? to What is this Time teaching me?….In this journey I had a few breakthrough AHA moments which totally rocked my world and changed the way I perceive reality.They presented themselves as truths which were crucial for me in my journey from being a compulsive thinker to a Conscious Creator…

Maybe you have already had some of them or would be having them soon…

 

  1. You are not your thoughts.

The first time I read that, I wondered if Alan Finger had lost his mind… How can I and my thoughts be different from each other? I had taken for granted that the blabber in my head was “me”

Now..I see quite clearly that life is nothing but passing experiences, and thoughts are just one more of those experiences. Thoughts are no more fundamental than smells, sights and sounds. Like any experience, they arise in your awareness and have power over you, if you choose to engage in them

If you can observe your thoughts just like you can observe other objects, who’s doing the observing? And what is being observed? Are they both the same?

 

2. It’s only the present Moment.

This is the most important thing I’ve ever learnt… Nobody has ever experienced anything that wasn’t part of a single moment unfolding. That means life’s only challenge is dealing with the single moment you are having right now. Before I acknowledged this, I was constantly either replaying my past or trying to figure out my whole future life at once…

The present moment is the only point of contact with life... Nobody can deal with the past or future, because, both only exist as thoughts, in the present. Click To Tweet

But we can kill ourselves trying to deal with all three at once…A very famous Bollywood yesteryear’s song aptly says- Aage bhi jaane na tu…peeche bhi jaane na tu…Jo bhi hai “BAS YEHI EK PAL HAI”

It becomes so much easier when you know your only responsibility is dealing with the present moment…This revelation relieved me from the heavy weight of the past and the future that I was always carrying around…

 

3. Most of what we think is imaginary.

Man is a compulsive thinker and most of the times doesn’t differentiate between his thoughts and reality. He most of the times thinks, his thoughts are his reality and acts out of it…

Most of what we interact with.. is not the world itself, but our beliefs about it, our expectations of it, and our personal interests in it. We have a very difficult time observing something as it is without smearing it with our perspective… so the bulk of what we experience in life is imaginary.

As Mark Twain said: “I’ve been through some terrible things in my life, some of which actually happened.” Click To Tweet

The only solution herein is to be Aware of the tendency of the mind to project imagination as reality.

 

4. We love to suffer.

Yes you read it right…We love to suffer…rather that is what we are best doing at…Previously I used to believe that if I was suffering it meant that there was something wrong with me — that I was doing  wrong or I was wronged…. Whatever I did…my mind played this on loop – “this isn’t right, I need to improve this,”… This revelation made me understand that this urge to change or escape the present moment drives nearly all of our behaviour. It’s a ruthless survival mechanism which works well for keeping us alive…Describes best why we are so hooked to mass media which mostly does nothing but glorifies suffering…Also explains why  Victim mode has become a comfort zone for most. As harsh as it sounds, this revelation is insightful because it means: 1) that suffering does not necessarily mean something is gravely wrong, 2) Since it’s a natural tendency of the human mind…the degree to which you suffer is ultimately up to you…

 

5. We all act out of three subconscious drivers: to fulfill our desires, to escape our suffering and both.

Understanding this allowed me to finally make sense of how people can hurt each other so badly. It also allowed me to being least judgmental and not throwing people out of my life because they hurt me… No matter what kind of behavior people exhibit, they are acting to the best of their capabilities (at the given time) to either fulfill a desire or to relieve their suffering and in some cases both. These are motives we can all mostly understand; we only vary in how we project them. These projections depend on our upbringing and our experiences in life, as well as our state of consciousness. Some people fulfill their desires, or escape their suffering skilfully without hurting others while others are crude and destructive…  Understanding this completely shook my long-held beliefs about taking things personally when someone behaved unpleasantly…

 

6.Change requires repetition

Repetition is the word…Man is a creature of habit…we have a strong tendency to slip towards our past thinking patterns unless we anchor our self to new thought systems through repetition…No revelation, AHA moment is going to make sense long term unless you remind yourself daily of what you have learnt…Repeat what you’ve learnt ..until it becomes autopilot for you…That is when real time changes start happening…

 

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